The older you get, the more you realize about modern relationships.
They are nothing like what you see in the motion pictures growing up! In fact, as you age, your priorities will completely change as you approach modern romantic and adult relationships.
Back when I was younger, my biggest problem was how handsome the boy was. I absolutely did not think much about our relative life plans or overall compatibility. In fact, my brain stopped thinking undoubtedly much about a viable future if he had blue eyes and nice hair. As an adult, I realize that everything is a lot more complicated than this. I have learned the hard way so several times that these days I approached relationships with serious caution and practicality. When I start seeing somebody new, I would rather find out about their credit scores and money handling skills than their passions in life. A few weeks ago, I started seeing a new man and I immediately approached a substantial topic. I asked if he respectfully utilized his heating and cooling system at home, how high his energy bills were every week, and what kind of thermostat he was operating. I needed to know if he logically utilized his central heating and cooling system or if he was energy inefficient and wasteful. I am sure that he felt like he was under interrogation when I asked to call his regular heating and air conditioning serviceman and talk about his upcoming repair appointment! However, at this stage in my life I need to know for sure if he and I share heating and cooling philosophies before I get any further in.