You can’t be a fantastic friend if you are consistently on the receiving end of things, but you can’t just consistently be the 1 asking for help as well as never help out your so called friends, then i have had people who I thought were friends in the past, but it turned out they were using me, and sure, they would help out with a couple of things here as well as there, but there would consistently be some kind of catch for their help; Like 1 friend would consistently help myself and others with my motorcar maintenance, however but in return, I would have to take him all over the location, the store for groceries, downtown for legal matters, as well as all kinds of things! He wouldn’t even give myself and others currency for all the gas I was using.
He helped myself and others a few times with my Heating, Ventilation, as well as A/C equipment, even though he ended up entirely causing more injure than helping, when the Heating, Ventilation, as well as A/C plan warranty became void, I realized that it was no fantastic trying to be friends with him any longer.
I felt care about I was not benefitting from this toxic relationship at all, as well as it was time to cut him out of my life. It’s a similar situation with a lot of other people, as well as I come to realize that the only person I can entirely depend on is myself. I assume that I can’t deal with most people because it seems care about everybody has some kind of agenda to gain some genre of benefit. I’m done with benefitting other people, it’s time to focus a lot more on myself.