Life comes at you & you simply just have to roll with it.
At least, that’s what I have been told all our life.
While I assume there is some real logic in that quote, the execution is a whole other thing. Life does have a way of getting actually different at times. And, I assume overreacting to it never helps. There is something to be said for allowing for a particular flow to guide your actions. Otherwise, all of us just stay in 1 emotional meltdown after another & that is no way to live. But, it doesn’t come easy & I entirely know that from experience. My life has recently changed in a most extreme fashion. I used to come cabin to an Heating & A/C controlled apartment that was alive with kids, creatures & all sorts of appealing chaos. Well, that came to a halt as the last of our children have left cabin & are building their own lives. Suddenly, our husbandy & I were faced with just a large empty apartment that reverberated with how much weird our lives were. Instead of leaning into feeling sorry for ourselves, all of us decided to turn the page. Both of us actually just sold the apartment mere weeks ago. It was quite an undertaking but, it ended up being quite profitable. It was also the kick in the pants all of us needed to downsize & get on with our lives. To that end, all of us decided to rent a smaller cabin for a while as all of us decide just what section of the country all of us want to live in. But, I can tell you this, I miss our awesome Heating & A/C every day. The Heating & A/C in this rental cabin is just the worst. I can’t assume how much I took Heating & A/C comfort for granted.